Yes, Its the first Monday of the year where things start getting back into action where people start getting into the conditioned mind of work
The early hours, the jogging once in a while has commenced the question is are you “diving on in” or nah. Most people have a strange in look into the year ahead with resolutions that actually never get met, Have you ask yourself why?
Well I am here to tell you that forming habits is very mild, I use mild as its not hard nor is it easy but a willing and consistent vision of a goal you somewhat get somewhere
The first thing to remember is always wake up early once your on that you could do a lot of things whilst up, For example listening to a podcast, My personal favourite is VTPodcast “Ideas That Matter” as it dives into the entrepreneur ideas and tips that always seem to give me an “Aha” moment
Then after that we make tea either Oolong or Roselle by this local company called LaVita Living products which I was introduced to by my Aunt who used the products to heal my Uncles prostate cancer, So from there my family and I have enjoyed these tea’s
A lot of people insist on exercise in the morning which is great as it get your body thriving during the day but sometimes that method is not for everyone, A late jog is a lot more convenient as the breeze is a lot more cooler and you have to enjoy your mornings
Then I jump into the shower for about 10mins. Face products I use are Nivea Deep Cleansing, I don’t tone my face because I naturally have dry skin but after that I use Nivea Men Creme comeback to my bedroom and make my bed, I never liked doing my bed but ever since I got abit of independence I am forced to make my bed as my bedroom is also a hosting place for some Xbox fun with the fellas
After all that then I check my phone and emails and respond to a few and just start prepping working from home, Then I get to make breakfast my usual is eggs brown toasted bread and a glass of orange juice
So there you have it. Its not really that hard, Remember waking up early is the key, plus setting objectives for you to conquer because if there’s no plan there’s no moving forward
People love to talk about alphas and alpha male traits. Some say that every man should be an alpha. Others contend that they don’t exist. Science aside, we can probably all agree that we have seen men at times who seem to exhibit an aura of authority and confidence (particularly our MANSCAPED models). While we could argue back and forth as to how much every man should be like that, there are a few valuable lessons we can all learn from stereotypical alpha male traits. They can be seen as the five most important alpha traits.
We’re not talking about having an amazing Pinterest account here. Instead, a true alpha is ready to do things himself; this can be small and simple, like staying late to clean the bathroom at the end of a shift. It can be big things like confronting the guy who looks like he’s about to take a too-drunk girl home. It can also be huge things like starting a movement or going to war. It’s hard to generalize such a massive concept, but the point always comes back to the same thing. An alpha isn’t waiting for someone else to get something done or make a difference. He’s ready to do it himself. He knows how to tell someone they have bad hygiene, and he’s taken it upon himself to make sure he’s never that guy.
Doing this can be your first check to see how alpha you are. Have you ever wished somebody would change something you don’t like? Is it because your plate was just that full, or were you hesitating or hiding? It’s a tough truth, but everyone has to start somewhere.
There’s an important side-note to this concept. No one can do everything themselves. Many alphas get in over their heads because they don’t delegate enough, or they get too optimistic about how much time they have. The ultimate alpha can leave things to other people once they’ve convinced him they’re up to the task. It’s just something to keep in mind as you go down this road.
2.) He Has Patience
Do you want to know the easiest way to spot a faux-alpha? He exhibits obvious impatience. It’s borne of a lack of confidence. Someone who is trying to appear tough and together can easily be disturbed when things derail a plan. The guy who shouts at the waitress for bringing the wrong food or the gate agent for a delayed flight isn’t an alpha. Maybe he’s an alpha sometimes and is having a particularly rough day, but losing your shit over nothing is never a sign of confidence.
It’s the opposite. When you have genuine confidence in your ability to face any challenge, it’s easy to remain calm when things go bad. You can receive bad news, calmly assess the situation, and then take action to deal with it.
Now is a good time to note that many positive traits that come with being alpha are built around this concept. An alpha is interested in affecting change, whether that’s fixing a wrong order or restructuring society. Yelling at the messenger is pretty much never a way to change things. If there’s a central point, it’s that the alpha always acts from a position of confidence. He can handle things as long as he has a correct assessment of the situation.
3.) He Does Not Hesitate
To the uninitiated, this and the previous idea will feel contradictory. How can you stop, take a deep breath and assess a situation before acting without hesitating? Isn’t that the very essence of hesitation? This misconception is at the core of the faux-alpha. Because he is interested in appearing confident rather than being effective, the faux-alpha acts too soon. Appearing to act right away is most important to him, and it’s one of the most important alpha male traits.
Do you have anything you’re pretty good at? Do you have a favorite video game where you destroy your friends? That’s a good way to understand hesitation. When you’re good at something, you don’t feel rushed or hurried while you do it. To others, you might appear fast, but to you, it’s just another day in the office. That’s how the alpha lives his whole life. He knows how to handle himself. When adversity strikes, he pauses long enough to form a plan of action, and then he is following it. You’ve done this in at least one area of your life at some point. Extending it to everything is how you become a complete alpha.
4.) He’s Always Learning
This makes it seems like you have to be amazing at absolutely everything to be an alpha. Some alphas really will seem like they’re great at everything. That’s an unintentional illusion. The truth is that an alpha is the way he is because of his nature. He always wants to learn, grow and improve. Gaining knowledge and developing skills is one of his favorite things in life. He knows that he might not be able to master everything, but any little bit he can add to his repertoire will come in handy at some point.
An alpha is great at his trade, but he’s at least an amateur in a bunch of other areas. These areas can include practical skills like auto mechanics, carpentry, and plumbing, but it can also include social skills like dancing, cooking, and wine tasting. The pursuit of growth leads to growth, and this is a default state for an alpha. It’s also one of the central pillars of his confidence. He doesn’t trust himself in adverse situations because he’s egotistical. Instead, he has confidence that stems from a lifetime of trying to learn and master anything and everything.
5.) He Has No Comfort Zone
You’ve been told your whole life that you need to get out of your comfort zone. You’ve probably even taken that advice at least a few times. The difference between an alpha and everyone else is that he has no comfort zone in the first place. He has spent so much time and energy tackling new challenges and situations that become his default state. He’s so comfortable in weird situations that he always appears composed. It’s not a matter of being superhuman. It’s a matter of practice.
You see, some alphas are born, but plenty are made. If you aren’t the former, you might have to play a little catch-up, but you can catch up. A natural alpha genuinely enjoys facing the unknown. You can develop that enjoyment. It’s just a matter of effort. You simply have to take the advice everyone has been giving you and dial it up to 11. Tackle every new experience you can handle, and if those experiences involve learning or developing skills, that’s even better. If you completely immerse yourself in this lifestyle, you really can transform into an alpha.
There’s a caveat we need to stop and consider. Everyone has limits. Getting out of your comfort zone won’t magically erase yours. Instead, it’ll help you understand where those limits rest. That’s also a part of confidence. Knowing what you can and can’t do can help you steer yourself down a path you can follow and find success in all aspects of your life.
Bonus Alpha Male Trait: He Has True Courage
Everything up until now can be a simple matter of practice. You can coax yourself into being more of a do-it-yourself guy. You can expand your knowledge and abilities by getting out of your comfort zone and taking on new challenges. Doing this will help you develop the confidence to act with patience but without hesitation. There’s one more essential trait to a true alpha, and it isn’t something you can practice. Instead, it requires a direct, bold, hard, and honest look at yourself.
An alpha is not fearless, but he has courage. Fearlessness is ignorant, and it often gets people into trouble rather than out of it. Genuine courage is something else. It’s moving forward despite fear, and it manifests in many ways. The thing is, you don’t have to be born with the heart of a lion to discover your courage. Instead, real courage comes from knowing your values.
The bravest men in history have been able to accomplish incredible feats. We would all call them alphas. The misconception is that they are innately extraordinary people. That might be true in terms of how skilled they were at things, but the courage was perfectly ordinary. It simply stemmed from knowing what was worth more than their own life before they faced mortal danger.
Courage isn’t always life and death, but it can always be found when someone is honest about what they are willing to risk. Is it worth getting into a fistfight over a spilled drink? Why? An alpha has answered this question long before the situation ever arises. To get there, you need to know what is worth risking your pride, wealth, comfort, and, ultimately, your safety. You need to know when you would be willing to stand between someone and danger when something is worth quitting a job, and even when it’s time to say no. It’s a lot to understand, and it takes time, but when you honestly reflect and know your values, you prepare yourself to rise to any occasion. Now, douse yourself in the best male cologne and go conquer the world.
Growing fruit and nut trees is a great way to introduce height, structure and a little natural privacy to a space. It also provides you with a supply of fresh produce and is one of the quickest and easiest plants to grow.
Attractive plants, the fuzzy, serrated heart shaped leaves are complimented in the spring by the emergence of yellow catkins. These are followed by papery husks in late summer or fall. As well as being a resilient, low maintenance choice these popular specimes don’t need as much room to flourish as other fruit trees. This makes them a great choice if space is at a premium.
Native to large parts of the Northern Hemisphere, in the wild the hazelnut tree thrives in cool, deciduous forests. Traditionally thought to be a symbol of wisdom, they are mentioned in ancient Greek and Roman mythology as well as in the Bible.
Today the hazelnut tree is commercially grown for its nuts. The wood is also useful. It can be turned into fencing, handles for tools and baskets. Meanwhile the oil from the common hazel is used in cosmetic and food products.
An attractive and versatile plant, with just a little effort the hazelnut tree provides you with a supply of sweet nuts throughout the summer months. Also known as filberts, this guide will take you through everything that you need to know about the hazelnut tree.
What is a Hazelnut Tree?
A member of the Betulaceae or birch family, hazelnut trees can be further categorized into the Corylus genus. In this genus you will find several different species, many of which produce the desirable, edible nut.
The most popular or commonly grown varieties are:
C. Avellana also known as the European or common hazelnut,
C. Maxima or the giant filbert,
C. Americana, commonly known as the American filbert.
Of these 3 varieties, C. Avellana is commonly grown. A deciduous shrub it is easy to grow and provides year round interest. Common cultivars include Barcelona, a popular home garden and commercial choice. Barcelona produces large crops of rich nuts. A versatile plant it can also be grown as a shrub. A mature Barcelona hazelnut tree can reach up to 13 ft. Barcelona requires cross pollination by other cultivars for fruit to form.
Contorta or Harry Lauder’s Walking Stick is an ornamental variety, popular for its gnarled twisting branches. During the spring yellow catkins and green leaves emerge. In the fall the attractive foliage turns bright yellow.
Ennis is a high yielding hazelnut tree cultivar which produces large, flavorsome nuts. Susceptible to Eastern filbert blight it requires cross pollination with Hall’s Giant. While this is not a large cropping cultivar it does have a vigorous growth habit.
York is a pleasingly compact cultivar, producing averaged sized nuts. It also produces lots of attractive catkins and pollen during the spring and summer. This makes it a popular choice for the pollinator garden. Resistant to eastern filbert blight, York is compatible with a number of varieties.
The C. Americana cultivar is a good choice for northern growers. These plants tolerate heat and cold well; they are also resistant to Eastern filbert blight. Creating a good windbreak, in the fall, the foliage turns attractive shades of gold, yellow, red and orange. For something truly different, Corylus maxima Purpurea produces purple foliage and purple husks.
Most species are hardy in USDA Zones 4 to 9. Depending on the plant and growing conditions they can achieve a height of between 8 and 20 ft. and a spread of around 15 ft. They can also be cultivated as small shrubs.
Like sycamores and zucchini plants, the hazelnut tree is monoecious. This means it produces male and female flowers on the same plant. However, they may not flower at the same time. American varieties, C. Americana, self-pollinate while European varieties, C. Avellana, are self-incompatible. This means that they do not self pollinate even though they produce male and female flowers.
Not all types of hazelnut tree cross pollinate. When selecting cultivars, consider the pollination recommendations. Even if you are planting a self-pollinating type it is recommended you plant more than one to help improve the yield.
How to Plant a Hazelnut Tree
You can grow your own hazelnut tree in one of a number of ways. You can purchase bare root saplings or potted shrubs from a reliable garden store or plant nursery. Alternatively you can grow the plants from runners harvested from an already established hazelnut tree or from seed.
Planting Bare Root Saplings and Potted Shrubs
If you are selecting your root or shrub in person, try to select the healthiest available specimen. Healthier plants are easier to establish in new positions. If you are ordering from an online store, the shrub or root will be sent to you when it is ready to plant.
Bare roots are best planted in late fall or early spring. Plants growing in pots can be planted at any time of year. However, they are best planted when dormant, during the winter or early spring. Transplanting dormant specimens helps to prevent heat stress and reduces the need for regular watering. Try to plant when the soil is workable and not frozen. The soil should be dry or damp. Don’t plant in water-logged soil.
Water the roots well before planting. Use a good shovel to dig hole twice as wide and twice as deep as the root ball. Position the root or plant in the center of the hole. The top of the roots should be just below the level of the soil.
Refill the hole, mixing in equal parts compost and peat moss or sand if the soil is a heavy clay type. As you fill, tamp down the hole to remove any air pockets.
After planting water well. Continue to water regularly until the plant is established and, if planting in the spring, new growth is visible.
Once established the plants can grow 13 to 24 inches a year.
Growing from seed is a slow process. But it is also the cheapest. Seeds collected from trees in the wild, or from friends’ gardens cost nothing.
Before sowing, test the viability of the seed by placing it in water. Any seeds that float are not viable. These should be discarded.
Score the viable seeds. Use a sharp file to make small slashes in the outer coat. This makes it easier for roots to emerge, aiding the germination process.
Sow seeds in the fall in position. Plant the seeds 15 inches apart and 2 inches deep. The slightly pointed side should face downwards.
Mulch or use a cold frame to protect the seeds over winter. A mini greenhouse such as the Ohuhu Portable Mini Greenhouse can be used as a makeshift cold frame. It also enables you to harden off young plants while protecting them from various pests.
Alternatively, you can start the seeds undercover in 8 inch pots filled with fresh potting soil. Sow the seeds in the fall. As with sowing in the ground, sow the seeds roughly 2 inches deep. Moisten the soil and place in a light position.
Germination can take several months. During this period it is important that the soil isn’t allowed to dry out.
If you are keeping the pots in a cold frame or a sheltered area make sure that they don’t become waterlogged during rainy spells.
In the spring, when the weather is warm, water regularly to keep soil evenly moist. Seedlings should appear in a few weeks.
In warmer climates you may need to stratify the seeds. This means artificially exposing them to cold weather. To stratify, place the seeds in a zip-top bag filled with an even combination of peat moss and sand.
Place the bag in a refrigerator overwinter.
The following spring, move the bag to a warm place in the house for a few days or until signs of germination appear. After the seeds germinate, plant them in 8 inch pots filled with potting soil.
Keep the seedlings in their pots over the summer in a partial shade position. Remember to regularly water. After hardening off, you can transplant into the ground in fall or when seedlings are 8 to 10 inches tall.
Propagating a Hazelnut Tree from Runners
Runners are the suckers that appear at the base of an existing shrub. During the late fall, as plants are in the early stages of winter dormancy, dig up a sucker with its attached roots. Replant 15 ft apart, roughly 1 ft below the soil line. If you have access to an established hazelnut tree, this is one of the easiest methods of propagating and planting your own specimen.
Where to Plant
In hot, dry climates plant in a full sun or partial shade position. Generally the hazelnut tree needs at least 4 hours of direct sunlight every day. This encourages good nut production.
The soil should be well draining. Avoid planting in boggy or waterlogged areas. Work in organic material such as compost or sand to improve drainage. A soil pH of 5.5 to 7.5 is ideal. If you don’t know the make up of your soil, a soil test kit is a quick and easy way to find out. Avoid soil that is too rich in nutrients, this causes foliage to emerge at the expense of fruit.
While most varieties are hardy in USDA Zones 4 to 9 some can tolerate USDA Zone 3. However, temperatures falling below 15 ℉ can cause blossom drop.
Spacing specimens 15 to 20 ft apart gives them lots of room to spread out and develop.
Caring for a Hazelnut Tree
Once planted the hazelnut tree is a pleasingly low maintenance addition to the garden.
Water
Mature specimens are drought tolerant. Young plants need regular water, so don’t allow the soil to dry out.
Water weekly during the growing season until the plants are established. Try to water 1 inch every 10 days for the first two seasons after planting.
Use a hose to ensure that you water deeply around roots during dry spells.
Fertilizer
In good soil, no additional fertilization is required. If growth is slow, or the foliage appears pale a small dose of nitrogen fertilizer can be applied in spring.
Pruning
The hazelnut tree can be shaped into a shrub or tree. This versatility means that they suit a range of growing situations and planting schemes.
Shrubs require little regular pruning. Remove any suckers that emerge at the base of the plant in the spring. This focuses the plant’s energy on creating a healthy main stem. A good pair of shears helps to keep plants in shape.
To encourage an open bush prune your hazelnut tree in winter. Aim to remove around a third of the oldest growth, cutting or sawing the stems down to ground level. Thin out any overcrowded areas. You are aiming to keep the center light and promote air circulation through the plant. Finally, cut back any crossing branches. Allow the young, twig-like foliage to remain in place, this bears the majority of female flowers.
To shape your hazelnut into a tree, remove the lower, hanging branches. Keep 3 to 5 stems at top of the main leader or trunk.
In the winter of the first season, when the plant is still dormant, identify the strongest or largest evenly spaced branches. Prune away the other branches and cut back any suckers. Continue to remove branches every year in late winter or early spring for a few seasons, until the leader branch reaches a decent height.
Common Pests and Problems
The hazelnut tree is a low maintenance specimen. However, there are a few things to watch out for.
Deer and rabbits enjoy eating the leaves, catkins and branches. Smart Spring Tree Guards provide robust protection against potentially destructive mammals. Squirrels also target nuts.
Filbert Worm or Acorn Moth (Cydia latiferreana) are small red-brown moths with a thin band across the wings. The large are half an inch long with beige or pink bodies and dark brown heads. Larvae overwinter in the soil before moths emerge the following spring, laying eggs on husks. After emerging the larvae like to eat the nuts, tunneling through and destroying whole kernels. This can ruin crops and cause bacterial or fungal pathogens to enter.
An easy way to deter pests is to practice companion planting. Dill, daisies and marigolds all encourage beneficial insects and deter pests.
Nut Weevils (Curculio nucum) are beetles with elongated snouts. Adult beetles target buds and foliage during the spring before laying eggs on developing nuts in the summer. The larvae hatch and feed on nuts.
Damaged nuts rarely fall from the plant and can be harvested with other, healthy kernels. This ruins the entire crop. To naturally remove the nut weevils place a sheet of tarp under the foliage. This is best done in late summer after rainfall. Shake the plant to dislodge the adults before placing them in soapy water.
Common Diseases
Planting in favorable conditions reduces the risk of disease.
Eastern Filbert Blight is caused by the Anisogramma anomala fungus. Initially causing cankers to form on branches and flowers the disease eventually leads to wilting and plant dieback. Remove and dispose of affected branches to prevent the disease spreading throughout the plant.
Armillaria Root Rot is caused by Armillaria mellea or oak root fungus. Affected foliage discolors and falls away before branches die back. Eventually the entire plant dies. Yellow mushrooms may also appear at the base. Once present Armillaria Root Rot is difficult to cure. Instead dig up and destroy affected specimens. Today many plant nurseries sell rootstock that is resistant to this disease.
Bacterial Blight damages young branches and kills foliage and buds. Caused by Xanthomanos campestris pv. Corylina bacterium, it spreads through infected plants, causing lesions to form. Remove and dispose of diseased branches.
Bacterial Canker is caused by Pseudomonas avellanae and is typically problematic in European varieties. Typically causing new growth to wither and foliage and buds to die, it can also cause gray foliage to appear on the bark. Cut and dispose of infected plant matter to prevent the disease spreading.
It can take 3 to 4 years before plants mature enough to start producing nuts. When mature, the first harvest nuts fall as they ripen. Nuts grow as clusters known as burrs. They form as the foliage grows. You can start to harvest in the fall once the leaves and burrs start to change color. While the foliage turns attractive shades of yellow or orange, the burrs usually turn brown.
As nuts ripen, cut grass and tidy up the area below the plants. This makes collecting the nuts easier.
Rake up the nuts from the ground or place a sheet of tarp beneath the plant. This collects the nuts as they fall. Typically you can harvest ripe nuts from late September to October.
Discard any damaged or empty nuts. To test how good the nuts are place them in fresh water. Good nuts sink to the bottom. Any that float to the top should be discarded.
Dry the nuts by spreading them out on trays in a warm, sunny spot for a few weeks. Turn them every few days. Once dry, scrape off the papery husks.
You can store nuts either in their shells or shelled. Nuts in their shells can be kept at room temperature for several months. Shelled nuts should be consumed within a few weeks. Alternatively, they can be refrigerated for up to one year.
To roast the fresh nuts, place them on a baking tray in the oven at 180° for 20 to 30 minutes. Check regularly and rotate for an even roasting. Remove from the oven when the papery skins come easily away from the nuts.
Easy to grow, the hazelnut tree is a great hedging and natural landscaping choice. The colorful catkins and flowers are popular with bees and pollinators. Like other nut or fruit trees their colorful fall foliage is also a good way to add color and interest to late season gardens.
29 September 2021, Johannesburg, South Africa – The news that jobs in the formal non-agricultural sector decreased by 86 000 in the second quarter of 2021 is yet another blow to punch-drunk South Africans. The latest Quarterly Employment Statistics from Statistics South Africa (Stats SA) points towards the continued impact of Covid-19 on South Africa’s stagnant economy.
Total employment decreased from 9 652 000 in March 2021 to 9 566 000 in June 2021, with the community services industry (-65 000 or -2,3%) and manufacturing (-15 000 or -1,4%) the main sectors taking a knock.
While formal sector jobs increased by 60 000 compared to the same period last year, it must be noted that April through to June 2020 saw the largest job losses in recent years, with President Cyril Ramaphosa starting the lockdown on 26 March 2020. Unfortunately, full-time employment decreased by 27 000 or (-0,3%) quarter-on-quarter, with a decline of 17 000 (-0,2%) year-on-year between June 2020 and June 2021.
Chief Economist of the Efficient Group, Dawie Roodt believes the job losses do not come as much of a surprise. “Although the economy is growing quite fast, there are many technical reasons for this. One is that 2020 was such a horrible year, and the other being that we’re seeing a huge growth in primarily the mining sector. But the rest of the economy is pretty much in the doldrums and will remain like that for some time,” Roodt notes.
Households struggling to cope
According to Neil Roets, CEO of Debt Rescue, the 86 000 quarterly job losses could have devastating consequences for many households. “Very few households in South Africa have the savings to tap into to deal with unemployment, often borrowing money simply to survive. As can be expected, families will cut back on expenses, foregoing life or car insurance, or cancelling retirement annuities to cover the basics. Vehicle loan repayments also suffer as the focus quickly narrows down to avoid defaulting on a home loan, or to simply have the money to pay for rent,” states Roets.
The job losses also have broader implications for the economy. For the government this could mean a fall in tax revenue as unemployment increases, while decreased household spending also means less VAT. An increase in consumers borrowing money can be expected, but Roodt believes going forward financial institutions will be more reserved when lending money to consumers.
This, however, will not stop many consumers succumbing to increased debt. “Many households find themselves in a debt spiral, as they max out credit cards or stretch store credit to the limit. They borrow money from banks through personal loans, and when this avenue is not available less scrupulous sources such as mashonisa loans with particularly high interest rates are tried. The compounding financial and mental implications of household debt are simply too much to deal with for some, notes Roets.
Future insights
Roodt is concerned about future economic growth. “South Africa’s economy might be growing this year, but I believe we will see economic growth well below 2% from next year onwards. This simply means that unemployment levels will remain elevated until we change a number of macroeconomic policies,” Roodt concludes.
The economic forecasts are not looking good and South Africans will be required to pull the belt even tighter. “The next quarterly result from Stats SA will reflect the devastating impact of the July riots on the broader employment rate. With many businesses destroyed or looted, increased job losses will be inevitable as companies had to be closed and employees let go. This will see even more consumers succumbing to debt,” Roets notes.
Luckily South Africa makes provision for debt counselling, offering a way out for those who are over indebted. “By talking to a debt counsellor, consumers can see if they qualify for debt counselling. This allows for the negotiation with creditors to allow for an extension of the repayment period alongside smaller payments, providing a much-needed relief from the debt spiral,” Roets concludes.
In a relationship, whether married or still in courtship, there are things you should not tell another person. You never know who will be the Judas over your relationship. There are high secrets you have to keep only to yourself.
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1. Don’t tell anybody how weak your partner is. Someone may use it against you/them.
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2. Don’t tell people how much you quarrel with your partner, make them see it as perfect from outside while you settle issues from inside.
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3. Don’t tell even a best friend how much you get as pocket allowance from your husband, if they ask tell them that he’s giving more than you expected.
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4. Men don’t tell your friends how good your wife is in bed, that’s a secret between you and your wife.
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5. Don’t ever tell your mother the way he or she is acting in the marriage, you won’t like the outcome if she’s a jealous Mother in law.
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6. Ladies, a friend may be eyeing your hubby and that’s why you shouldn’t tell them what moves him most.
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7. Even your pastor is not worthy to know how many times you quarrel with your husband, most of them will use it as sermon. Just talk to God alone.
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8. Don’t tell the children that their father/mother is a bad person. It can make them hate them.
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9. Don’t tell anybody your partner’s past mistakes, it is too risky for your marriage.
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10. Don’t tell anyone to try seducing your partner to prove their loyalty. They may end up winning their love..
